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dont make “i identify as [funny thing]” or “my preferred pronouns are [funny things]” jokes if youre cis. i cant believe some people dont get that its a shitty thing to do but in case you havent realized: thats incredibly shitty. stop
Stop using ‘genderqueer’ to mean ‘DFAB’ and only including it in lists like ‘transmasculine, genderqueer, boi’. It also belongs on lists like ‘transfeminine, genderqueer, trans women’. Probably more-so on lists that don’t associate it at all with one binary category or the other (DFAB or DMAB).
Also, stop using ‘androgynous fashion’ to mean ‘DFAB and wearing menswear’. I mean, you probably look really cute in that blazer, but … yo. I look more androgynous when I wear earrings than when I don’t. I look more androgynous when I wear tight shirts or camis than when I don’t. I look more androgynous when I wear makeup than when I don’t.
When I wear a blazer, I look like a fucking dude.
Don’t universalize your specific narrative into a grand narrative. It erases folks.
i’ve received messages from DMAB people who aren’t sure if “genderqueer” is a word they can use. it is, and that it’s not is a misconception.
fucked up, considering dmab people are more at liberty to be reclaiming the word queer (and therefore the variation “genderqueer”)
WHEN WILL I STOP WANTING TO SHAVE MY EYEBROWS AND DRAW BIG BLOCKS ABOVE MY EYES IN SHARPIE
this nail polish turned my nails yellowish now my thumbs and pinkies are have weird lookin nails i’m frowning
i’ve been assuming people have my level of stress tolerance and i’ve hurt people by holding them up to that assumption. i’m sorry
fucked up that i’ve been trying to socialize with people with largely only my own thoughts and experiences as the scope of “normal”
reblog if girls are hella
idk i just don’t like mario. he has never been given any characterization for me to like him or like hating him so
hi anon. tbh i’m just planning to stay offline until the 12th at least because i’m trying to spend as much time with my sister as i can before she leaves. she was one of the main reasons i left arizona early. after that i won’t really have anything else to do and i’ll try to be online more
to answer your first question: i don’t know. it’s been very back and forth for new reasons that confuse me
to answer your second: yes i will do my best. one of the reasons i try to post on tumblr every day is because it lets a handful of people who are concerned about if i’m still ok that i am. i guess i didn’t really consider that when i decided i was going to start taking an on-off break.
thanks for your messages again. you are a really cool anonymous dude and i’m surprised that you still keep track of me
siri and me